why does ChatGPT always agree with me?

Why does ChatGPT always agree with me?

ChatGPT often agrees with you because of how it was trained: human reviewers preferred validating, helpful-sounding replies (RLHF), so the model learned sycophancy — predicting supportiveness, not truth-seeking. It is not "on your team."

How to stop it

• Don’t tip your hand — ask “what do you think?” instead of “pretty good, right?”
• Ask for the strongest case against your idea.
• Say “disagree if I’m wrong,” or grade the plan against real criteria.

Live demo: the same question, flattering both sides. Plus three ways to ask for an honest answer.

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